How to be Attractive

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Growing up I had a hard time getting girls to like me (in a more than a friend kind of way). I just couldn’t figure out the secret to winning hearts over.

I saw it as a BIG problem, and decided to devote a few years of my life to find the solution to my question:

“How do I become more attractive? So that people (girls) like me.”

I spent countless hours studying social dynamics, psychology, love systems, and pretty much anything I could get my hands on. I eventually found the answer I was looking for in the most unexpected of places. The answer I found goes beyond how to get (girls) to like you. It taps into a force that will have the whole world love you. Everyone and everything around you, will naturally be drawn to you. From prospective business clients to customers, friends, family, and even bunny rabbits. They will all gravitate towards you.


Today I’m going to share my invaluable findings with you.

My hope In sharing this information with you is to help you find, and bring out the best version of yourself for the world to see. To help you refine and grow from within, in an organic, sustainable, happier way. By laying down the right foundations now, you will start to attract all the finer things into your life.

Who wouldn’t want that?

Now before we begin, a few disclaimers we need to get out of the way.

WARNING: The information I am about to share with you can easily be abused in the wrong hands (think Darth Vader). Viewer discretion is advised!

DANGER: DO NOT CONTINUE READING if you suffer from, or have a history of emotional or power abuse. This stuff is strong, and in the wrong hands can cause a lot of pain and suffering for everyone.

Remember: With great power comes great responsibility.



The secret to being more attractive is to refine the qualities already embedded in your DNA, latent deep within you. Through the right kind of education, practice, and service, you will become a magnetizing, irresistible, force of attraction.


One of my favourite quotes that explains this further:

“Regard man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education can, alone, cause it to reveal its treasures, and enable mankind to benefit there from.” -Bahá’u’lláh

This information is nothing new. It has existed long before us, and will continue to exist long after we are gone, it is ancient and eternal (like gravity) – powerful stuff right?

So what is it?



Batman used it.

Superman used it.

Pretty much anyone and everyone we ever looked up to in our lives, at some point, used or demonstrated the powerful attractive force of the virtues.

But wait, what the heck is a virtue?


Virtues are:

“Behaviours or qualities that show high moral standard. Goodness, virtuousness, righteousness, morality, integrity, dignity, rectitude, honor, decency, respectability, nobility, worthiness, purity; principles, ethics.”

Sexy Right!?

Well maybe not at first glance (to the untrained eye). Lets put it into context. One that our generation might better understand…


Think of the following:

  • Disney used virtuous qualities to prototype irresistible characters that made it next to impossible for a generation of lost boys (like myself) to even attempt sweeping the ladies off their feet (think “knight in shining armour“).
  • Mario, always got the princess. Bowser did not. 
  • Ryan Gosling in “The Notebook” – Irresistible right?
  • Great inventors, innovators, and artists. Leonardo Da Vinci, Steve Jobs, MC Hammer.

The list goes on and on…


Virtuous Qualities

Can be found in almost every person we have ever felt an attraction towards. The virtues are so powerful, that we felt them in others, without even knowing what they were, or why.

The good news for us, is that we don’t need to be a superhero, or knight in shining armour, to demonstrate these virtuous qualities. They exist within every one of us. If we can identify it, and work at it, we can all become a magnetic powerhouse of love, and the centre of attraction.

The virtues are the building blocks for all things attractive, influential, and worthwhile in the world.



  • Assertiveness
  • Caring
  • Cleanliness
  • Compassion
  • Confidence
  • Consideration
  • Courage
  • Courtesy
  • Creativity
  • Detachment
  • Determination
  • Enthusiasm
  • Excellence
  • Faithfulness
  • Flexibility
  • Forgiveness
  • Friendliness
  • Generosity
  • Gentleness
  • Helpfulness
  • Honesty
  • Honor
  • Humility
  • Idealism
  • Joyfulness
  • Justice
  • Kindness
  • Love
  • Loyalty
  • Mercy
  • Moderation
  • Modesty
  • Obedience
  • Orderliness
  • Patience
  • Peacefulness
  • Prayerfulness
  • Purposefulness
  • Reliability
  • Respect
  • Responsibility
  • Reverence
  • Self-Discipline
  • Service
  • Steadfastness
  • Tact
  • Thankfulness
  • Tolerance
  • Trust
  • Trustworthiness
  • Truthfulness
  • Unity

Choose one, and practice it daily, until it becomes effortless. Mastering even one of the above will spark a flame that the world will notice and be drawn to.

So, the answer to the question: “how do I become more attractive?” is simple,


Strive to bring out and refine the virtues already within you.

Practice, practice, practice, until it becomes effortless.

Re-think pushing, cheating, stealing, and putting other people down, as a strategy to attract people into your life. It just doesn’t work that way. Work with the natural systems of  life, instead of against it–regardless of what television and mainstream media might have you believe is right or wrong, attractive, or un-attractive.

Remember who you REALLY are, and live life to the highest standard of values possible (even if it’s against societies norm). IT’S ATTRACTIVE!

Best of luck, The world belongs to you!



  • Ks1233

    Very Nice, and so very true! I love your blog! It has a very warm feeling to it! What type of program are you using?

    • Leo Tabibzadegan

      Thank you so much! The site is powered by WordPress (designed by Elegant Themes). Super Simple!

  • FlickeringCandles

    Thank you so much for this list. Your background picture is amazing. Alláh-u-Abhá

    • Leo Tabibzadegan

      You are very welcome! Thanks for the kind words :)

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  • Attractive

    “DANGER: DO NOT CONTINUE READING if you suffer from, or have a history of emotional or power abuse. This stuff is strong, and in the wrong hands can cause a lot of pain and suffering for everyone.”


    I appreciate this awesome list of virtues here. I love people with high moral standards, its very sexy.
    I heard that two years later after writing this that you don’t actually have many of these, and you are attracted to zombies?

    • Leo Tabibzadegan

      Yes it’s true. Zombies have taken over my soul. And now I’m rebuilding myself, trying to fight my way back to these Virtues :)